WAAAAIIIITT!

WAIT!!!! a few wedding updates i forgot!!!

We asked Josh's amazing friends to participate in our wedding. Jan will be an Usher, while his wife will be singing amazingly in the church! We are so blessed to have so many people we love and care for willing to do us the honor of helping!!! LOVE YOU ALL!

how fast time flies!!!

So this past week has been a bit on the crazy side! hahaha...On Wednesday we went dress shopping and guess what...I FOUND MY DRESS! It was a surreal experience. I was kind of testing the whole if you know you know theory but it was soooooo right. We were only there for about 1 1/2 hours which wasn't bad at all. We would have been done earlier but my girls decided to try on a few dresses too. Which was so much fun. Almost the whole wedding party was there and it was an incredible time. I cried, I laughed and I loved every part of it. I wish I could post a picture but you know how that goes!!!ahhahaha...Well anyways...here is a little bit of an update. Can't wait till the engagement party next weekend...My parents are throwing it for the bridal party and some family. We can't wait to see if we get anything fun!!!hahahah...or if we get anything at all! It doesn't matter to us, all that matter is that we have a good time!!!!!

Registering!

So this weekend was an amazing weekend. We had so much going on this weekend but it was worth every second. On Friday night we traveled out to Upland so I could help Corinne with her Wedding invitations. Since Josh's school is so close to there we were able to carpool which was amazing. Its so much fun to spend as much possible together!haha...We then ventured home around 12:00am. I know crazy! (and to think Josh does this M-F) I was exhausted! hahaha..Saturday morning we ran errands! Then in the evening we went to one of the most beautiful weddings I had ever been to. It was right on a cliff over looking the ocean. There was an open bar and amazing food. Josh and I danced the night away. His friends were so surprised because he usually doesn't dance(and no he wasn't drunk)! hahaha... By the end of the wedding we were soooo tired...We kept talking about how much fun we had and how old we were getting because our legs hurt and we were tired before 11pm! hahaha...Well Sunday came around and we decided to go Register. Now I was having a hard time with this part because it seems so early to register. I fiugred like 2 months before the wedding was good enough. However, my boss told me that we should register before the parties begin! By parties I mean the festivities leading up to our wedding! The first party will be for the wedding party and close family! THE ENGAGEMENT PARTY! We look forward to that because Josh's family will be there and itwill be alot of fun! So anyways, we went to register because Tina(my boss) said that people always want to bring presents for the party! Her being all into the wedding thing, figuring Maddy got married not to long ago(Maddy is her daughter)!

So off to Target and Bed Bath and Beyond we went. Josh was the shooter, I was the pointer!hahaa.. We had a blast. Then after the registering we watch Wrestlemania with close friends. We had a great weekend and I'm glad we have some of our registery up and at um! Well most of it because we had so much fun doing it!!!!hahaha....

looking for someone

To help me do bridal stuff...kind of like a Wedding planner but not so high strung!! Let me know if your interested...I would LOVE to have someone help with all the little things and keep me on board!!!hahahahaha....

My Bridal Party!

So this part of the journey has been hard. I have so many friends who are dear to me. However, there is only room for so many! Fortunatly, my fiance has tons of friends and its funny how the roles are reversed! hahaha...Josh has a ton of friends and I had to find a few more then usual! Which is fine because I know I made the right decision. So many things come into play when picking a bridal party.
So this is how it ended-

*Emo- Matron of honor
*Melissa (my sister)- Matron of honor
*Sasha( friend)- Bridesmaid
*Alli (my sister)- Bridesmaid
*Natalie(my cousin)- Bridesmaid
*Katie(future sister-n-law)- Bridesmaid
*Corinne(Friend)-Bridesmaid
*Stephanie( Friend)- Bridesmaid
*Madison(friend)- Bridesmaid

GroomsMen
*Marcos(friend)-Best man
*Jeff (future son)-Lil' best man
*Henry(friend)- Groomsmen
*Eddie(brother)-Groomsmen
*Eric(future bro-in-law)-Groomsmen
*Mikey(friend)-Groomsmen
*Myles(friend)-Groomsmen
*Clair or is it Klair(friend)-Groomsmen
*Mark(friend)- Groomsmen


oh and can't forget the flower girls and Ring bearer
*Leilani Pati & Skylar Cerny
*Brandon Pati

My Love

I can't believe this day has finally arrived. I never, in a million years, dreamed of this day. The day that I marry my best friend. Josh and I have had a shorter relationship then most. Well a lot but I know that life would be so rough without him in it! Instantly we have become best friends, companions, and most of all he's become so close to Jeff. I used to picture what it would feel like when I found the right one. But now that I have, I wouldn't want it any other way!!!I can't picture myself without him! I wouldn't change what we have for the world. We are better people because of each other. He has taught me to take my time, take a deep breath, and to look outside the box. I have taught him to care for himself and love himself like I love him. Since the day we met we have been inseparable! Which is so amazing. He is such a role model to Jeff and Jeff loves him soooo much. Its great to see Jeff finally have something he can realistically see! We cant wait to become the Farmer family and start our happy lives with each other!!!!